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How old were you when you had your first "official" boyfriend or girlfriend? What was he/she like?

My first "official" boyfriend was in 6th grade. I was 11.
His name was Shawn Winn.
We had some classes together and he asked me out in PE.
He was pretty adorable and he had dimples. He played football, basketball and baseball.
We would hold hands and sit next to each other at lunch. I would sit at the "boy" table so that we could eat together except I wouldn't eat in front of him.
He was my first kiss... it was valentines day of like 99 or something. he got me a necklace and some candy and a balloon. After school we walked out front together and he leaned in to kiss me I kept my mouth closed and he opened his, it was moderately disastrous.
we dated on and off for 3 years all through 6th 7th and 8th grade but we never dated again through high school.
we learned a lot from each other and explored a lot about each other. I let him touch my boobs and kiss me with his tongue.
he let me have one of his sweatshirts with a football on it and I lived in it for about a month.
it was a very young and innocent thing. we told each other that we loved each other but we really didn't. We were just twelve year olds in awkward clumsy emotional stages. He liked to skateboard and he was pretty funny.

My first girlfriend was when I was 18 years old.
Her name was Stefani and we met in college.
we had a class together and I thought she was an adorable little thing.
I was straight and she was very gay.
we started hanging out and it became a little bit obsessive. I had never been around a lesbian. I had never known one as a friend and my feelings got out of control. I had strange feelings for her that I had never experienced with another girl. We fell hard and fast. too hard and fast. we moved in together right away... I came out to my family. everything was a big jumble of crazy.
Stefani cheated on me a lot and I moved to New Mexico to be with her but we didn't make it. because I was in love with another girl.
she was jewish and liked skateboarding and video games. She's a film major and loves animals.