QotD: Sticks and Stones

What's the meanest thing you've ever said to someone?

I'm not sure how someone is supposed to come up with the meanest thing they have ever said to someone and blog about it.
Maybe it's just me.
I really don't know what the meanest thing I've said to someone is.
It would depend on the feeling at the time, the way that it affected the other person and numerous other variables.

I can however think of some mean things that I have said to people and the way that it made me feel.

1. Once in 5th grade I was sitting at a table with this other girl, Ashlynn. Ashlynn and I were talking and gossiping and such when all of a sudden she asked me if I like Amanda.
Amanda was the fat girl that everybody made fun of. Our parents were friends and we were pretty good friends but I was embarrassed because the other kids made fun of her and I didn't want to be the friend of the fat girl that nobody liked. I said no.
Amanda was standing behind us... Ashlynn knew that she was and said that to trick me. This instance may be one of the meanest things done to me as well as to Amanda.
Later we became best friends and are still close.

2. I hate you.
those three little words can be the worst thing you can ever say to someone.
It's funny because the almost identical set of three little words could also be the best thing that you can ever say to someone.
I can remember numerous times during my childhood that I've told someone very important to me that I hate them.
My little sister Destini.
Siblings fighting is completely natural.
little did I know growing up that that little girl would grow up and be my best friend, the one that I tell secrets too, we have everything in common, we make each other laugh and cry.
I love her with all my heart.
looking back, the thought of me ever saying to Destini "I hate you" breaks my heart.

3. A few weeks ago I told my girlfriend Mavica to shut up.
...
it seems so insignificant but I feel so horribly about it.
Mavica is such a beautiful and sweet person.
I never want her to shut up.
She deserves to speak and be heard.
and I want to be the one to hear her always.
That was probably the meanest thing that I've ever said to her and I'm so sorry.